Do you ever struggle with compassion fatigue as a vegan? I know I do.
‘Compassion fatigue’ occurs if a person ‘cares too much’ at the expense of their own health and well-being. This can happen to new as well as seasoned vegans as they continue to talk to others about veganism, look further into the atrocities of animal agribusiness, including its devastating affect on the planet, and perhaps also become directly active in animal advocacy. Basically, you get worn out mentally and emotionally by witnessing, or by simply being aware of, the suffering of others.
I’m in the process of writing a help sheet on vegan self-care about this, and I’ll send it out soon to OVP Newsletter subscribers. In the meantime, below are a few thoughts on compassion fatigue and a bit of my story.
I’ve always been a sensitive soul with a deep connection to animals. It’s who I am and I’m thankful for it as it has lead me to many beautiful encounters and relationships. Once as a child walking home I found an injured bird. I carefully scooped him up, named him ‘Scooter’, and took him home to recover, which he unfortunately, did not. Another time, walking the dog, I heard a kitten mewing in the sewer. Luckily he was nestled in a drain full of autumn leaves, not water. I christened him ‘Rodney O’Reilly’ and he came to live with us. He loved peas, and also destroyed the one gingerbread house I ever made!
I feel things deeply and have to be careful not to overload myself with negative, sad or depressing stories, images, or news. This means, for instance, that I remove myself from vegan Facebook pages where there are graphic animal abuse posts. These posts are very distressing to me and not at all useful or motivating! I’m already aware of what happens and a very visual person, so those images take a long time to leave my memory, and sometimes never do. We can and should pick and choose what we spend our time viewing and reading - this is crucial for our mental and emotional well-being as vegans, and as people, for that matter.
One thing I often do to ‘lighten up’ is read funny memes and quotes...and I tried Laughter Yoga once, which was strangely uplifting.
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Until next time...
Onward, contemplative cabbages,